Dining Etiquette
It is best to arrive 15 to 30 minutes later than the time of the invitation if you are going to a Filipino's home for a big party. Never refer to the wife of your host as the hostess. The Philippines have a different interpretation of this. Put on appropriate attire. You will be evaluated based on how you look and how you present yourself. Gratify the hostess for the home.
The week after the dinner or party, send the hosts a handwritten thank-you note. It demonstrates your class. Before entering the dining area or helping oneself to food, wait to be asked numerous times. Await instructions on where to sit. There might be a seating arrangement. Wait until the host encourages you to begin eating before doing so.
Meals are frequently offered family-style or as self-serve buffets. As far as eating tools go, a fork and spoon are standard. Use your left hand to hold the fork and your right hand to transfer food to the spoon. Rather than being dictated by society, whether you should finish everything on your plate or leave some meal unfinished depends on your personal preferences.