Family

In Comoros, the extended family is typically large, especially in villages where polygamy is common. Men are in charge of family finances and property, while women take control of the household. Men do little domestic work; they farm or fish for the family’s subsistence. Women seldom leave home except to do chores or for holidays, although some women in urban areas do work outside the house.

Children use their father’s given name as their surname. At about age 18, sons might build themselves a paillotte (thatched hut) near the family home. They still eat at home and take part in family activities, but sleep and entertain guests at their own dwelling. Daughters live at home until they marry. Small children are cared for by older sisters, and elders live with their adult children when they can no longer live alone.

Individual needs are subordinate to those of the family in Comoros. People expect to share in both the successes and failures of family members. Within the larger community, sharing wealth is a way to increase one’s social standing and influence.