Marriage Etiquette

A traditional wedding in Seychelles is distinguished by an elaborate ritual that is slowly fading. Everything starts with the courtship customary on these islands. The man writes a love letter to the parents of the girl he wishes to marry, expressing his deep love for her and explaining his character, major in life, occupation/work, what he will do to ensure the material girl's upkeep, how many children they would like, and so on.

Courtship can start if the girl's parents accept the proposal. The man weaves a coconut basket called a 'Kapatya,' and delivery of fruits and vegetables is made to the girl's house as an offering to the parents. On the wedding day, a car is decorated with frangipani flowers and colorful ribbons for those who can afford it.

The exit of the church or the place of the party has erected an arch with palm leaves and decorated with fresh flowers, the groom and bride cross this arc, followed by guests, all accompanied by a band playing the wedding march with instruments such as guitars, violins, banjo, drums, and triangles. At the wedding party, guests drink, sing, and dance, and older women sing old sentimental songs aloud.