Meetings and greetings

It's true that many Japanese are wary of outsiders, mostly out of a concern about not being able to communicate, which is why some foreign tourists to Japan lament how challenging it is to meet locals. There are numerous opportunities for somewhat formal communication, such as through the Goodwill Guides, and learning a few Japanese words will be of great use. Otherwise, try stopping by a neighborhood pub, yakitori restaurant, or similar establishment; chances are someone who is drunk and cocky will start a discussion.

There is a flurry of bowing whenever Japanese people meet, express gratitude, or bid farewell. The relative rank of the two people determines the precise depth of the bow and how long it is held. Although bowing isn't demanded of foreigners, it's incredibly contagious, so before you know it, you'll be bobbing along with the rest of them. A quick half-bow or a slight nod are the typical compromises. Japanese who are more accustomed to Western norms may extend their hand to shake with you; in this instance, be gentle because they won't be anticipating a firm grasp.