Personal Space

Westerners and Bhutanese consider personal space and property in very different ways. The Bhutanese frequently have a "what's yours is mine" mentality when it comes to personal property. This is mostly because, as Buddhists, they have little concern or interest in personal property because it is transient and rather inconsequential in the greater scheme of human existence.

You are less likely to offend someone if you are polite and respectful of their religious convictions. In both Dzonkha and English, adding the word la at the end of a phrase is considered respectful. You should conduct yourself in Bhutan according to customary Asian ideals of decency and behavior. These include not making public shows of affection, dressing modestly, and respecting the monarchy. To deliver or receive an object, use the right hand, or better yet, use both hands.

You should use an open hand with the palm up instead of your fingers when pointing, especially at deities or other sacred items. Keep your palm pointing downward as you wave someone toward you. Never touch the crown of the head, such as that of an infant; it is regarded as a special part of the body. The majority of lakes are home to gods or spirits. Especially, you should avoid swimming, washing your clothes, and throwing stones into them.