Socialising in Spain
When meeting and parting with friends, relatives, and acquaintances, it's usual to give each other a cheek kiss. These types of male-to-male kisses are only permitted between family members or very close friends; otherwise, a firm handshake is preferred (same as in France or Italy).
A customary abrazo (hug), which is given to anyone you haven't seen in a while and/or are particularly thrilled to see, regardless of gender, is a good compromise (male-to-male is somewhat more common). It's more common than you might think for someone to throw their arms around you when they expect a hug, but you shouldn't reciprocate with strangers because it's likely a ploy to obtain your cash.
In connection with this, Spaniards are eager to keep physical touch while conversing, such as by rubbing your back or placing their hand on your shoulder. These should be interpreted as expressions of friendship amongst intimate friends, family members, and coworkers.
Despite the fact that Spaniards aren't usually the most timely people in the world, you should never be late for an appointment since it will be perceived negatively by the majority of people. It's acceptable for women to sunbathe topless on Spanish beaches. Particularly prevalent in tourist locations is this practice. Nudist or "clothing-optional" beaches allow for full nudity. When having lunch or dinner, Spaniards wait until everyone is seated and ready to eat before they start to eat. They also wait until everyone has done eating before getting up from the table.
Other than that, table manners are conventional and informal, though this also depends on where you are eating. It's customary to split the bill evenly when it comes, regardless of how much or how expensive each person's meal was.
Rarely do Spaniards eat or drink in the street. Food to go is rarely an option at bars, however "tapas" are frequently offered. The "doggy bag" was especially unheard of until lately. Even if it's still uncommon, taking restaurant leftovers home has less of a bad reputation than it did in the past several years. One orders "un taper," which is short for "Tupperware," or "una caja." Older Spaniards will probably still look askance at this. Public display of intoxication is often frowned upon.
