Visiting Etiquette

Visiting people’s houses is a central aspect of Palestinians’ social life and an important social obligation. People visit each other to celebrate events, catch up on community news, and to commiserate and support one another during difficult times. For example, it is customary for a bereaved family to receive visitors on a regular basis for three days after a death.

There are numerous distinctions among Palestinian family homes. Customs may also differ depending on the formality of the visit or your relationship with the individual. Nonetheless, you can expect to be warmly welcomed and received. Although relatives and close friends may visit each other without notice on a regular basis, it is best to arrange a time to meet to allow your host time to prepare for your visit.

If a visitor is staying for an extended period of time, the Palestinian host may also invite guests to the upcoming household meal. It is polite to compliment your host's hospitality and home (for example, the view from a window, their home's location, cleanliness, or general décor). However, avoid overly complimenting a specific object or item, as it is customary for your host to present it as a gift. If they try to hand it to you, tell them you appreciate their gesture but refuse to accept it.

While many Palestinians are unconcerned about gender segregation, some religiously conservative families may require men and women to socialize in separate rooms. Do not go on a house tour or enter rooms you have never been in before unless you have been invited. This includes looking for the restroom. Always notify your host so that they can give other family members time to leave the area if they want to maintain their privacy.