Communication Style

Bulgarians are champions of indirect communication. One needs to observe the manner and tone of the speaker to understand fully. Many Bulgarians are direct but use non-verbal communication extensively. Sometimes it is helpful to ask the same question numerous times to see if the response changes. For example, when inviting someone out the initial answer might be “no” but if asked again the response sometimes changes with a bit of encouragement by asking again.

Bulgarians are not afraid to raise their voices. Even if they sound upset and it appears they are quarreling, usually they are not and the conversation will end in a friendly manner. The closer people are the more they may actually argue and fight but it's never taken personally. And pointing with the index finger is rude. Don’t slap anyone on the back, even in jest. Don't chew gum or check handheld electronics while in conversation. Friends, especially girls, often hold hands or walk arm in arm. Gentlemen remove their hats before entering churches. People also remove gloves before shaking hands. People cover their mouths when coughing or sneezing.