Communication style

Another Togolese culture, customs, and etiquette that you must bear in mind is Communication style. The Togolese's communication style is greatly influenced by the person they are speaking with. Women will converse with children far differently than they will with men, including their husbands. The Togolese are rarely forthright or clear in their meaning. Actually, it's more of the contrary. They frequently speak when they believe you want to hear it or when it is required of them. Men, women, and children are the order of importance in Togolese culture. Additionally, age tends to be associated with respect.

In many instances, especially when discussing one's appearance or qualities, people tend to be direct but polite. For instance, it is acceptable to interpret the praise "you look fat today" or "you got fat" as a good comment. Another major standard is skin tone. If you are black and have lighter skin than they do, people won't hesitate to ask what color your skin is in public. This is socially acceptable and in no way impolite.