Culture and Patriotism

In certain ways, Norwegian culture is quite informal, and unless possibly in official meetings, Norwegians typically simply use their first names to address one another. However, the informal culture is not comparable to that in southern Europe; being late for meetings, speaking loudly, getting too personal with strangers, and losing your temper are all seen as disrespectful.

At dinners at someone else's house, you might get away with being "fashionably late," but this is not encouraged and should be kept to a maximum of 15 minutes. Taking off your shoes is typical while entering a Norwegian home, especially during the winter.

Another stereotype of Norwegians is their semblance of nationalism. It is typical to fly the flag on public holidays and use it in private festivities (such weddings and anniversaries). Violating the flag's regulations is discouraged.

The majority of Norwegians have positive things to say about their nation, especially when discussing things like sports, nature, and the nation's prosperity. The celebrations on May 17, which is the nation's constitution day, can be a little overwhelming for visitors because the country is draped in flags and people dress to the nines.

Norwegian patriotism, however, is typically only a statement of gratitude for being a part of a prosperous society; it is in no way chauvinistic or combative. However, unless you are certain that they will be warmly received, you should avoid making jokes about the patriotism of the Norwegian people. On the day of the constitution, dress up and attempt to greet everyone you come across with gratulerer med dagen (literally, "congratulations with the day"). Even if you are not at all Norwegian, you will likely receive the same greeting and notice many smiles.

Norwegians take pride in the fact that families and schoolchildren participate in the parades on Constitution Day rather than military personnel.