Dining etiquette

While it depends on your company and the overall setting, dining in Samoa is generally a less formal affair than you might expect. The rules of table etiquette are a little looser. There are rules in their more formal restaurants, and these rules are considered important, especially if you are dining with business-minded individuals.

You will discover that the dining rules are more concerned with your behavior than with the actual process of eating. It is considered impolite, for example, to bring a dish to pass because it indicates to your host that you believe there will not be enough food for everyone. Allow your host to seat you at the table, as they will usually seat all guests near the center of the table so that everyone can converse with you.

You may notice a lack of silverware after being seated (do not attempt to eat anything while standing!). Eating with your hands is a common Samoan custom, and if your hosts do it, you should follow suit. Remember that going back for seconds is considered impolite, so as a courtesy, take a bite of everything that is offered, even if it fills your plate. Looking around the table, you'll notice that everyone does the same thing.

Finally, do not begin eating until instructed to do so. You may be expected to eat first as the guest, but you should not make this assumption. Pacing your consumption with that of others at the table is also a sign of respect. Others at the table may take what they cannot finish home; however, your host may expect you to finish your plate. If the meal is being served in a restaurant, these rules will be followed more formally, and utensils will almost certainly be provided.