Meeting Etiquette

The most typical greeting consists of a handshake, eye contact, and a grin. "Peace be with you" is the usual Arabic/Islamic greeting, to which the reply is "wa alaikum salaam" ("and peace be unto you"). The proper way to meet good friends of the same sex is with a handshake and a kiss on each cheek, beginning with the right.

Handshakes between men and women are uncommon. It's smart to wait for the other person to extend their hand before you do if you're meeting someone of the opposing sex. If a handshake is not offered, a simple nod of the head and a modest bow will do. You can anticipate being presented to each person separately at a modest social gathering. It's possible to introduce yourself during a big event.

Iraqi businesses conduct themselves in a formal manner. Asalaamu alaikum (peace be with you) is a frequent greeting in Arabic, to which you should reply "wa alaikum salaam" (and peace be with you). The handshake with direct eye contact is the most typical business greeting. A handshake can last quite a while, so try not to be the first to take it off. Men should be patient and wait till a lady offers her hand. Greeting cards are distributed. The Arabic translation on one side of your card is a lovely touch.