Raising Your Spirited Child
Some readers shared that they cried when they started Raising Your Spirited Child. It was such a relief to know that there were other parents out there like them, with kids like theirs! It was validating to know that some children DO require more input than others: people felt like their hard work was finally recognized. As you continued, what stood out, even beyond the helpful advice and tips for handling the intense traits of a spirited child, was a positive perspective. You will able to shed the burden you feel about having a "spirited" child and look at these traits and challenges as a very special gift.
A gift yes, but one that definitely requires some fine-tuning. That's where the author breaks down the definition of "spirited" into separate temperamental components and what they look like, and then how to respond in a positive way. The practical advice is the meat of the book. Along the way not only did you learn about parenting, but you can also learn about yourself, your childhood, your marriage, and about relationships in general. This book is a rare gem that transformed the way you think.
Link to buy: www.amazon.com/Raising-Your-Spirited-Child-Perceptive/dp/0060739665