Socializing and Tipping in the Netherlands
Due to the tendency of Dutch people to stay to themselves, some expats find it challenging to form close friendships or ties with locals. The Dutch typically maintain a small, close-knit group of friends, many of whom they have known since childhood. As a result, some Dutch people don't think they need to try to widen their social circle.
However, you'll frequently find the Dutch to be friendly if you're prepared to take the initiative to mingle with them. This is particularly true if your Dutch is of a high caliber. By joining clubs and finding mutual interests, you can meet Dutch individuals. It can be a good idea to join a club for sports, yoga, cooking, or any other activity you like because Dutch people want to stay active.
Getting used to a new culture and its practices can take some time. Follow these simple advice on Dutch culture and social manners to make your life easier: Be on time for appointments, and let people know if you're going to be a little late. Avoid unexpectedly visiting someone's home. Avoid making arrogant remarks that suggest superiority. Avoid chit-chat at official and business meetings. Never refer to the Netherlands as "Holland" (Holland is a region in the Netherlands). Even if the majority of people in the Netherlands are proficient in English, try to speak some Dutch.
