The Engagement ceremony

Among Malagasy culture, customs, and etiquette is the Engagement ceremony. Traditional weddings in Madagascar or Malagasy weddings are surrounded by fascinating and unique traditions and rites. Depending on the regional customs and beliefs, the whole process can vary a lot. It also varies over time. But any wedding in Madagascar must have Engagement. Before any marriage ceremony, the couple needs to get engaged “traditionally”. The first step is locally known as “vodiondry” or “lamb’s rump”, which is a Malagasy couple’s formal engagement.

Vodiondry means lamb’s rump. It is the most priced cut of lamb meat in a traditional Malagasy society. It is always given to the most respected people in society, usually the elders. That is why this is also given as a gift to the bride’s parents by the groom. This is to show respect to the bride’s parents and thank them for raising his future wife. It is a big deal because the more you offer, the more you show that you value your future wife. Besides, the groom introduces himself in front of the bride’s family and formally asks for her hand in Vodiondry.