Basic Etiquette
When meeting someone for the first time, it is important to inquire about their health and that of their family. Once these personal inquiries have been answered, then only go on to the subject at hand. Forgetting to inquire about someone's family reveals a lack of empathy and an opportunity-seeking mentality. It is advisable to simply ask about male family members, though. If you don't know the family or individual well, conservative Pakistani men may feel it extremely dishonorable and rude to inquire about their female family members.
People frequently compliment another' appearance, hairstyles, or personal possessions. Put on attire suitable for the occasion. It is considered impolite to forget to do so. It is recommended to constantly dress modestly without drawing undue attention to one's physique. Loud laughter in public is frowned upon. When someone enters a room, stand up to welcome them.
It is considered impolite to sit with your legs crossed. Do not instantly accept a Pakistani's offer to pay for your groceries or meal. It's customary for the other person to insist on paying after they make this offer out of politeness. Alternatively, you might accept graciously if they keep requesting payment after you've declined their offer.
People frequently inquire about the background and position of strangers by asking personal inquiries. For instance, a person might be questioned about their residence or the professions of their parents.
In general, Pakistanis frequently arrive late and are not very punctual. There are, however, several exclusions to this. For instance, military families are known to be quite reliable.
