Dining Etiquette

In social settings, it's acceptable to take tea and other refreshments with grace. Before beginning to eat, people wait for elders to take a seat and start. Instead of using silverware, Pakistanis frequently eat with their hands. To pass, serve, or spoon food to one's lips with the left hand, however, is frowned upon. It should support the right hand when serving meals, with the right hand holding the plate.

Pakistanis frequently provide their visitors with additional servings of food. You can decline, but be prepared for the host to push. Accepting gratefully can be both simpler and more appropriate. You can put your palm over your heart and bow your head to deny an offer of food or a "hookah" if you don't like it.

When dining out, one individual typically covers the cost of everyone's meals. Only close friends will typically pay for an outing separately. Never offer to reimburse someone for a dinner. Instead, show your appreciation by making a purchase or paying the next time.